Why get married if you're gonna cheat???

some suggestions for Modern women

Published on October 27, 2004 By Nixonspawn In Life Journals

alrighty then! My hubbie calls me from the field and tells me that one of his fellow soldiers "caught" his wife cheating.....then says if I ever cheat on him he'd kill me and go straight to prison! LOL...he says this in a loving way, I swear it! LOL....in his own dumb redneck way.....

Now I ask myself, why would someone get married, then cheat on the poor guy?? I was married for eight damn years to a total schmuck...I never cheated! Not even once! I didnt even consider it.....it's just not something a wife does. It's so sad that so many wives out there cheat on their husbands so often. If you are THAT unhappy....why not just divorce him? My current husband is a total NON-Schmuck! he is my DREAM husband!! everything I have ever wanted in a man and I would never cheat on him. I told him if he ever wanted a divorce he might as well kill me...LOL I was joking of course. I can't ever imagine me wanting to cheat on him. Some females think they can excuse their rotten behavior......

Some excuses I have heard are:

I don't want to hurt him( ok...and catching you cheating hurts any less??)

I need to stay with him for the children's sake (Is that ALSO why you married him?? geez....)

He just doesn't turn me on like he used to(uh...people change honey, get used to it. No one is perfect and no one stays the same person forever)

I think our society is so used to all of this so-called perfection and instant gratification that they think these are valid excuses. I wish they would just listen to themselves and see how idiotic they really are! They want the men to be these viril stallions forever..and then if they are not in the mood....uh oh, time to cheat! Good Lord help us heal our twisted society.

Ladies....

if u get pregnant, it doesnt mean u have to marry him, it's not the 1950's anymore!

if u are unhappy now, just think of how unhappy you'll be in 5-10 years! There is no "fixing" a bad marriage..sorry, but it's true. If it starts out bad...it will ALL go downhill from there.Get out while you can! .....and do it with dignity and civility...for the sake of the children. If Mommy and daddy are not happy...neither are the kids! and do NOT EVER use the kids to get revenge on each other! That doesn't work! Never has, never will! The kids grow up hating you and blaming you for everything that went wrong in their lives...even if it's not your fault!

if you think divorce is a bad word...just try ADULTERER on for size......just think about THAT before you decide to cheat on your poor husband! Remember that movie...The Scarlett Letter? That BIG FRIGGIN "A"??? Uh huh...yep..now we are on the same track....

well, that is about all I can think of tonight...any more suggestions to help those cheatin dimwits are very appreciated!!

Comments

a_guy_with_gutts@yahoo.com

on Nov 03, 2004

world is not perfect in any aspect. marriage is a social need. no body wants to cheat on spouse. but everyone has thier own weak moments which are totally unescapable. if did not think of cheating your husband for past 8 years its a self control you have for you. all are as perfect as you are. i am not supporting wives who are cheating thier husbands. i am just analysing thier problems.

food, clothes and shelter are basic needs of a man. but sex is most important need after them especially when you are in young age. you have to eat when you are hungry otherwise the value of food is nil. likewise sex.

i would like to discuss more of it when we meet online.

i appreciate your sensitive feelings for relationships, trust and childern. i wish you can influence more people around you with your qualities.

Nixonspawn

on Nov 03, 2004

Sex is not the most important thing in a marriage. If my husband went into battle and his penis got shot off.....I would not leave him and I would not ever cheat on him. Sex is nice...but it does not make a marriage. If you put emphasis on sex in your marriage, chances are your marriage will fail........

People change....sex will not always be good between you and your spouse. Get used to it. If you set your demands low, and expectations low...there will be nothing to disappoint you. Don't get me wrong, I love sex with my husband, but I love everything else about him too.

When you marry someone, you should go into it knowing that everything will not always be perfect, and be willing to love that person no matter what. Then, if you realise that you made a mistake and you want to leave them.....get a divorce and get on with your life...don't cheat! there is no reason to cheat on your spouse...you made your bed and now you sleep in it.

I do NOT like that you insinuate that you and I "meet online"
I have no desire to "meet" you anywhere...so stop insinuating that we have any further involvment beyond this forum.

Purna Chandra Sekhar Rao

on Dec 08, 2004

for your kind information if you are not willing to cheat your husband why are you chating on yahoo with webcam? why did you post your sexy pictures on site? what are you expecting from all that? from all your writing I can understand only one thing that you are doing all this to impress your husband . nothing more than that. especially you are not meant what you say. you are always there to cheat your husband by giggling to guys and tempting them.

at last i lost interest in making friendshop with a jack ass like you. only ur husband will fuck you.

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